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{{dating}}Profile
names are often reflective of your personality and can be a determining factor
in online dating success. Just as with your physical appearance, the more non-descript
or ordinary your profile name, the less response you'll receive. Draw attention
to yourself by being creative! |
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An interesting or eccentric profile name can
quickly draw attention, be a great conversation starter or a chance to express
your individuality. Here are some things to consider when choosing an effective
profile name:
Numbers in Your User Name - Many people combine
their first name with the year they were born. Although not unique, this combination
does give a clue of you at a glance. If you insist on a particular name, you may
have to accept random numbers. For security reasons, never use personal identification
numbers like your address or phone number.
E-mail Address as User
Name - This is a particularly bad idea. Luckily, many dating sites will
prevent you from doing this. You never want to divulge your contact or personal
information unless you intentionally choose to.
Nicknames as Profile
Name - You may have a nickname from elementary school that you're considering
as your user name. Be forewarned that what was cute when you were ten may not
be so inspiring when you're looking for the right person. (PerkySue may sound
cute but may have sexual implications.) Something that is amusing, personal and
appropriate to your friends and family may not be entirely appropriate for strangers!
If you're trying to express a character trait or special interest with your user
name, check out the adjective in the dictionary. Try to see the name through the
eyes of a stranger.
Beware Sexual References - Unless you
are looking for a sexual liaison, avoid references to size, behavior or body parts.
If your name has implications of a sexual nature, you may turn off potential partners
and limit your success.
Hobbies Expressed in a Name - With
a user name like 'BikerBob' you know right away one of his passions. This is particularly
useful, if you want a potential date or partner to share in your hobby. If you
have a favorite book or TV character, you can reference it in your name but be
sure it depicts the characteristics you would want to send out.
The
Bottom Line - Choosing a profile name is a great opportunity to make a
good impression and can be intriguing or a turn-off depending on the effort you
put into it. Make sure your profile name reflects the impression you want people
to have of you. Carefully consider all possible ways that you user name could
be construed. Get the opinion of family and friends. There may be possible negative
reactions that you have not considered. Be creative and original so that your
name stands out but make sure it is for the right reasons. {{/dating}}
By Vanessa
May
DateShowcase.com © 2007
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