 In the dating world, men are often looking for what
they consider the ideal
woman: one that's intelligent, classy and extremely beautiful. But even the most macho of
men, full of bravado and confidence, can lose their cool when they're around beautiful
women. With so many misconceptions about what these ladies want, here are some tips to help you win their affections:
There's many reasons why men are intimidated by beautiful women. We can point to the media for many of our biases,
including the portrayal of beautiful woman as bitches. Fashion magazines, movies
and TV commercials depict them as unapproachable and out-of-reach of the average
man.
But look around and you'll see that the Prince Charmings of the world
don't always win the dream girl. You'll see that the guys who have success with
gorgeous women don't have a particular look, body, finances, age, race or personalities;
it's hard to come up with a common denominator.
Society places such an emphasis
on beauty that it may be intimidating to think that a beautiful woman would be
interested in you and so you don't make an effort to approach. Even worse you
may have bought into the following myths:
- Beautiful women get more
attention then they could possibly want.
The truth is that because people
are intimated, they're often lonely.
- Gorgeous women are only interested
in good looking men.
The truth is that character and how well you treat her
is what's important.
- All beautiful women are already in a relationship.
The truth is they have few dates because men are afraid to approach.
- They're
spoiled, self-centered, stuck-up snobs.
They have the same qualities as any
other healthy woman.
Show Your Masculine Side
Gorgeous
woman are the ultimate in femininity. In order to connect you need to be the exact
opposite. In other words, you need to be masculine.
Sometimes, men try
to appeal to women with their sensitive, softer side. This won't work with a gorgeous
woman. Masculine doesn't mean a burly, brutish, domineering male. It means qualities
like confidence, self-assurance, sense of humor and a bit cocky. The more you
can do display the classic signs of "being a guy", the more she'll be into you.
How
to Approach a Beautiful Woman
The direct approach works best! Take a deep
breath and allow a wave of relaxation to move through you. Imagine watching yourself
make the first move in a relaxed, friendly way. Imagine her smiling back and responding
to you with interest. By using your imagination, you will disassociate yourself
from your unconscious fear and be more comfortable and relaxed.
Women have
a keen sense when a man is unsure of himself and any bit of hesitation is a dead
give away. One way to show your confident nature is by being prepared with an
introduction or with a few well placed ice breakers.
- No matter how
beautiful a woman is or how many times she's heard it, women never tire of hearing
a sincere compliment.
- Share a humorous joke or anecdote.
- "Excuse
me, I just noticed something interesting about you…"
Beauty Is
in the Eyes . . .
. . . of the beholder. How true! Getting past the knock-out
looks to see the real person beneath is vital when dating a beauty. Men
place too much value on looks and get burned in the end when they find a dull
or mean-spirited personality beneath. Don't be intimidated! Approach a beautiful lady just like you would any other woman and you might be surprised by the outcome. After all,
beautiful women need love too and will be responsive to your approach when you show that you're not
intimidated by their looks.
By Noreen Ruth
Dating & Relationship Expert
DateShowcase.com Editor |
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